Attraction, a beautiful law.




We have, indeed, heard what the law of attraction really dictates. But many of us are still superficially ignorant about how it works. The most important thing we have to know about it is that we are the ones that make it work. We have the power to make of our feelings a positive attracting pole, not a negative attracting pole. This depends a lot in how we are capable of responding to what we see or sense, and how we can teach ourselves to respond to the events in our lives either in a positive or negative way.



The truth is, we are always attracting; the law of attraction is always working, and never without our consent. The law of attraction is always attracting to us the things, situations, events, persons, etc., that we focus on. It doesn’t matter if you are a good or a bad person, it will still work in the same way, but with one difference: those that make it work with love, will receive what they want -or focus on- and will feel great; while those who do not, will receive what they don’t want and therefore would feel not that great. The law of attraction is not something we have direct control on, on the contrary, it works alongside with us and for us. Is like electricity, we don’t control it directly, yet we receive its benefits and it works with us in such a way that it becomes a natural force. How amazing that is!



Every thought and emotion we send out to the universe, is returned as a perfect match to that frequency. If you think, or make yourself believe life is amazing, I wouldn’t be surprised if you start living an amazing life, or at least if you start noticing small advances on your life. Same situation if you believe life is horrible, you would notice that you’ve been “heard.” For it is not what you think randomly what has a strong effect on your life, but what kind of feelings you accompany those thoughts with. I see a lot of people telling themselves nice things and small sentences, like trying to memorize a positive sentence, but I see that their life is still the same. They have asked me- or my friends- why, and the reason why is because they are not believing what they are saying. Their emotion is not coherent with that saying, they do not feel it; yes, they may seem to feel it on the surface, but as soon as something bad happens, they start giving out the persistent negative emotion accompanied with thought that they are so used to when something bad happens, and they dwell on it, and life goes back to its regular happening, and nothing better happens (at least apparently).



It is more the kind of feelings you dwell on than those thoughts you create for a second and then place them to fantasy or to the “I don’t think this is true” place in your mind. Before hand, it is right for us to start thinking that reality is what we make of it. Picture two guys sitting on the same room listening to a classical piano recital. One guy is very happy that he is listening to this particular work, while the other is bored out of his mind and has a party later on in the same night. Those two guys are having the same apparent experience, they are listening to a concert; however, you see that they are not sharing the same reality, that they are both in a different world, and that the music has two very different results. The first guy will go home and think life is amazing for he had the opportunity to hear that particular piece of music; he will tell his friends about it-probably- and he will feel that that particular hour was a great hour full with excitement and artistic beauty. The second guy will go to the party thinking about how lame his last experience was and how sick he is of classical music- as well as many other negative thoughts. The reality they are sharing is not a common reality because of their perspective and the kind of thoughts they are thinking, as well as the kind of emotions they are giving out.



It is not a surprise that the life of those who enjoy life get the best out of it. It is not a surprise that those who nag all the time, will always have a horrible life-as long as they are convinced of it. In my personal experience, I’ve seen how my mind has shaped a lot of happenings in my life. Before, I hated going shopping when I had something more important to do. Surprisingly enough, I always found myself on malls and shopping centers when I had important things to do, or at least when I thought I did. Going there bored me to hell and I thought that it was my fate that I always had to go with my mom to buy her things, and only her things. I started changing my perspective, and I started to find it even fun. Well, whenever I went shopping, instead of having a negative attitude, I started to be nicer and to help my mom find her things more easily. Now, whenever we go shopping together, I always find something for me and start enjoying the whole experience. After that, I start to see how fun my day starts to be later on.